“Boys don’t cry.” A sentence we casually repeat in childhood. But when emotional vulnerability is suppressed and aggression is celebrated as courage, the consequences do not stop in classrooms or playgrounds - they travel into politics, power, and even wars. Boys Don’t Cry? Rethinking Gender, Emotions, and the World We Are Making Across India - and even in a socially progressive state like Kerala - childhood remains deeply gendered. Regardless of the class or caste into which they are born, most children grow up learning subtle lessons about what it means to be a “boy” or a “girl.” These lessons do not come from a single source. They are stitched together through family expectations, school environments, playground conversations, television shows, and social media narratives. From the moment children begin to interact with the world, they are gently - but persistently - trained to perform certain versions of gender. These performances become so normalized that they often pass unnotice...
Capturing the Politics and Poetics of Everyday Life....
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